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The Ring 0.1 Series

0.1 THE RING.
As a lady, you must be able to understand what is before you in this generation. Motive is the king of love.

A man engaging you is not your right..irrespective of how long you have being dating him. A man only engages a lady for marriage when he has observed, and have being satisfied that you fit into the major reason why he asked you out for a relationship. It is an approval that you are qualified to be part of his future plan. It means you have earned the right to be part of his future. It means you have earned the right to be his suitable help in every aspect of his vision and martially. It means your attitude, words and manners of approach has conquered every doubts he has about a life partner.

The engagement ring is not a right...but a previldge. Irrespective of all your sacrifice and the best you have given or shared with him in dating...if you don't fit into his plans for the future...He can break up and release you...for him to get some one else who can earn the previldge to be part of his future plan. Every relationship or dating must not end in engagement...which leads to courtship. Ladies...wake up and be sensitive to know why this guy is dating you. Understand his expectations towards you and be sure its what you will enjoy doing now and in future.

The engagement is a reward of a well done task by you, during the dating or relationship. You don't pray for it. You don't ask for it. You work for it and earn it.

BROTHERS, don't be in a haste to engage her because you are AFRAID of loosing her. Relax, sit, and observe to be sure of what you are permitting to be part of your future. Give attention to every little and big warning signals....such as abusive jokes, disrespectful attitude and words. Don't accommodate today...any thing you know you can't or won't accommodate in your marriage.
Watch out for the part two of this series.

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