Jealousy is not totally negative because our God is a jealous God
We have healthy jealousy and unhealthy jealousy.
Unhealthy jealousy reacts when you share the time, attention, and intimate conversation meant for your lover alone to some one that is casual.
In the healthy jealousy is what I call protective jealousy. Here is when some one is sensitive about who get closer to their lover... They observe silently to protect their lover either in prayer or advice when they notice some one is about to take advantage of their lover. They do it so cool, unnoticed, and peaceful that the traitor won't even notice his evil plans are discovered even before he or she start executing his or her evil plans.
In healthy jealousy, there is a willingness to share what your lover have with people as long as it won't disadvantage your lovers growth and self development.
Unhealthy jealousy is when you are greedy, possessive, domineering and dramatic around your lover simple because your insecurity or lack of trust makes you restless whenever you see people or the opposite gender around your lover.
Be inspired!
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