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When A Lady Says, I AM NOT YET READY

I AM NOT YET READY!  

I have always heard ladies saying this and ii have to ask the Holy Spirit on his view about this. 

Here is my findings. 

There is nothing wrong with you not yet ready to commit to some one emotionally. The attitude behind it is what counts


Not yet ready does not mean you become unfriendly.  

Not yet ready does not mean you become disrespectful.  

Not yet ready does not mean you should be rude to people.  

Not yet ready does not  mean you stopped giving, sharing and learning from platonic relationship. 

Not yet ready does not mean you should stop caring and calling or texting. 

Not yet ready mean you are dealing with negative issues in your life in other to be more productive in your next relationship. 

Not yet ready mean you are still busy defining your values and priorities through God's word.

Not yet ready is not an excuse for your fear to love again and trust again.

Not yet ready mean you are still busy preparing your self intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, morally and in capacity for the future that lies before you. 

not yet ready means you are busy learning how to love yourself, how to respect yourself and how to stick to your own priority defined by God's word. 

Not yet ready is not an excuse for laziness, procrastinating, and avoiding relationship. 

While you wait, get busy working on yourself and relating with God. don't just isolate yourself, engage in personal retreat with the Holy Spirit. Don't just say you are not yet ready, improve yourself and become the best version of your self while waiting, isolating and preparing. 

Jesus is here to help you and the Holy Spirit is committed to you 

Be encouraged! 

#HopeExpression #PrinceVictorMatthew #BabaLove 

You are God's daughter and you deserve the best! 

Don't become an enemy to yourself and self development. 

Cheers!
Location: Abuja, Nigeria

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