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Ladies Are Suitable Helpers

This is the purest advice I can ever give. 

Discover your calling before you start developing interest in making friends or dating. 

You are a lady and a wife in the making but the most importantly, you are a generational impact maker in the making. 

Every beauty is a tool. Every lady is a weapon. It's your duty to know the kind of battle you have being fashion or designed to impact. Your personal relationship with God Is what will give you clarity.  

Relationship or dating or marriage is never an escape from responsibility or self development. It is rather a call and an invitation for you proving what you've got and made of. You were created to shoulder burdens and set in order every situation that is disorganised. You were designed as a lady to be a suitable helper. 

Don't even think of marriage yet. The challenge is many ladies are not suitable helper to their own life and destiny. No time for them to feed their own spirit and heart with God's word. No time for them to talk to God about the clarity of their own destiny.  

Some ladies are of no use to their own lives and self development. Whatsoever involve money, they are there even if it's an insult to their dignity and value in Christ. Comparison every where. 

Daughters of God, this is time to become a suitable helper to your own life and destiny. It is time to feed your own heart with God's word. It's time to prophecy to your self. It's time To  get the clarity of what God has for you in future.           

This is your time to love you, respect you and invest in you.

You don't have the right to become a suitable helper to any man or body until you have successfully become a suitable helper to your self on a daily bases. 

Make the Holy Spirit your best friend and make God's word your platform for decision making. 


You are God's daughter and I celebrate you all. 

Be inspired 

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