How To Help People

I need you to understand that it is good to help.

But you were not designed by God to help every Body. You must be led by the Holy Spirit.

It's one thing to help some one or be willing to help someone but be sure the person admit he or she needs help. Don't push any help on any body. Don't go where you are not needed.

Help means this person is already making moves and taking steps in achieving a goal but needs a support. Don't make people lazy in the process of helping them.

Don't help any body that is not willing to joyfully receive your help. Don't help some one who is not willing to help him or her self.

The amount of help you offer to yourself will determine how people will be eager to help you.

Dear students, don't help any body above the help you are willing to render to Your own self.

Remember, you are a mentor with the heart of a student.

Keep learning and don't quit learning. All you know is not all there is to know, all you have is not all there is to know and all you have seen is not all there is to see. There is still more! Keep digging!

Heart to heart talk from your mentor!

Be inspired!

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