Every individual, including you, carries a unique mix of assets and liabilities into a premarital relationship. Your assets may be your strengths, virtues, talents, or resources, while your liabilities could be your weaknesses, limitations, or unresolved struggles. This truth is humbling and empowering because it reminds us that no one is perfect and that relationships are designed to reflect God's principle of mutual support and completion. As Romans 12:4-5 teaches, “For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.” Your relationship should mirror this divine interconnectedness. When you enter a premarital relationship, it is important to recognize not only your partner's liabilities but also the assets they bring to the table. Are they kind-hearted, patient, or great at managing time? Do they possess spiritual maturity,...
Kings and Queens, in a dating relationship, it’s important to pay attention to knowing and understanding the person you’re with. Take the time to see if their character, values, and lifestyle are things you would want for your future family. Amos 3:3 says, "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?" The person you date today could influence the life and future of your unborn children, so make sure you’re building something that aligns with the vision you have for your family. At the same time, keep discovering yourself. As you grow in understanding your identity, purpose, and assignment, you will be better equipped to date someone who matches your values and direction in life. Proverbs 4:7 says, "Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding." When you know who you are and where God is leading you, it becomes easier to recognize the right kind of person who complements that journey. Be intentional ab...