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Dating is Understudying

Kings and Queens, in a dating relationship, it’s important to pay attention to knowing and understanding the person you’re with. Take the time to see if their character, values, and lifestyle are things you would want for your future family. Amos 3:3 says, "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?" The person you date today could influence the life and future of your unborn children, so make sure you’re building something that aligns with the vision you have for your family. At the same time, keep discovering yourself. As you grow in understanding your identity, purpose, and assignment, you will be better equipped to date someone who matches your values and direction in life. Proverbs 4:7 says, "Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding." When you know who you are and where God is leading you, it becomes easier to recognize the right kind of person who complements that journey. Be intentional ab
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Balancing Faith, School, and Life According to Your Original Purpose and Assignment in Christ Jesus

Balancing faith, school, and life is about recognizing that each area has its place in God’s plan for you. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “To everything, there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” This scripture encourages us to approach every responsibility with wisdom and intentionality. Your time in school is not just about academics; it’s a season of growth and preparation for what God has called you to do. Learning to manage your time wisely will ensure that each aspect of your life contributes to your overall purpose in Christ. Your faith should be the foundation that shapes everything else. Matthew 6:33 reminds us, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Placing God at the center means starting your day with prayer, reading the Word, and asking Him to guide your decisions throughout the day. As you prioritize your relationship with God, it becomes easier to navigate the demands of schoolwork and other r

Mental health matters: coping with stress and anxiety

As a Christian youth, it's important to remember that your mental health matters to God. Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, with stress and anxiety creeping in during difficult moments, but you're never alone in these struggles. God is with you, and He offers peace and strength through His Word. One way to cope with stress and anxiety is by staying grounded in prayer. Whenever you feel overwhelmed, take a moment to pause and talk to God. He invites you to cast all your worries on Him, knowing He cares for you. "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7) Another tip is to trust in God's plan for your life, even when things seem uncertain. Sometimes stress arises from worrying about the future or things outside your control. In those moments, remind yourself that God is sovereign and has a perfect plan for you. "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to gi

30 Prayer Points for Guidance in Relationships

As a Christian single, navigating relationships can sometimes feel overwhelming. It’s important to remember that God is deeply invested in every aspect of your life, including your relationships. He cares about who you connect with, who you date, and ultimately who you marry. Seeking His guidance through prayer is key to making decisions that align with His will. Here are 30 personalized prayer points you can use to ask for God’s wisdom, guidance, and protection in your relationships. Father, I come before you with a humble heart, asking for your guidance as I seek to build relationships that honor you. I pray for wisdom in making the right decisions, in Jesus’ name. Lord, help me to trust your timing and not rush into any relationship out of fear or impatience. Teach me to wait on your perfect plan, in Jesus’ name. Father, protect me from relationships that are not meant for me. Close doors that could lead to hurt or distraction, and keep me aligned with your will, in Jesu

Finding God's Wisdom for Relationships: Bible Verses for Christian Singles

Navigating the season of singleness can be both challenging and rewarding, especially when it comes to relationships. As a Christian single, you likely desire to align your relationship choices with God’s will. This journey isn't just about finding the right person but becoming the person God has called you to be. The Word of God offers wisdom that can guide you in this process, helping you build relationships that are rooted in faith, love, and truth. One of the key scriptures to reflect on as a single is Proverbs 3:5-6, which says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Trusting God with your relationship decisions can feel daunting, especially when societal pressures or personal desires pull you in different directions. But when you commit your path to God, He promises to guide you, even when the journey seems unclear. Another verse that offers encouragement

Building and Nurturing a Christ-Centered Relationship for Christian Singles

When entering a relationship, especially as Christians, the focus should be on building a relationship that reflects the love of Christ. It's important to nurture a relationship rooted in God’s Word, allowing His principles to shape the foundation, communication, and growth of the bond. Let’s explore how you can build and nurture a Christ-centered relationship. Laying a godly foundation is the most crucial aspect of any relationship. As Jesus reminds us in Matthew 7:24-27, the foundation determines whether your house will stand firm through life's storms. A relationship that is built on Christ will weather any storm because it is anchored in His truth and love. Begin by praying together, seeking God’s will for your relationship. It’s essential that both partners share the same faith and values, as 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns against being unequally yoked with unbelievers. Your love for God must be the core that binds you together, allowing His principles to guide every

Trusting God’s Timing and Making the Right Choice in Relationships

As Christian singles, one of the most challenging aspects of life can be waiting for the right relationship. The desire to find someone who complements your faith, values, and life’s calling is natural, but the key is trusting God’s timing and making choices aligned with His will. In a world that encourages rushing into relationships, it’s essential to remember that God’s timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Understanding God’s timing in relationships requires faith and patience. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us that "there is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." This truth applies to relationships as well. Often, we may feel the urge to take matters into our own hands, but it’s important to surrender our timeline to God and trust that He is working in the background, preparing both us and our future partner. While waiting, focus on growing in your relationship with Christ and becoming the person God