I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called, Ephesians 4:1 KJV EMBRACE YOUR CALLING.  I have being rejected and people have hated me for this single truth I want to share with you. (I'm already used to haters).  Irrespective of the lack of people in any church department, we must be careful never to force people to join any department. Salvation or the Kingdom of God is not a place of disorder. It's a place of order! LET EVERY BELIEVER STAY AND SERVE IN THE AREA OF DEPARTMENT GOD HAS CALLED THEM TO SERVE.  Your calling in Christ ought to be the driving factor behind any thing you do in God's Name. Be careful to separate your hobby from your calling. The fact that you like some thing does not mean you are called to do it. There is nothing wrong will having hobbies but don't make it a necessity by despising what God has called you to do. Have you sincerely ask God; Father, what's my callin

Relationship and life is a transaction. You must embrace it with transaction mentality. What is the need of staying in friendship or relationship of a month and you can't point one Godly thing you have gained....? WHAT ARE YOU BUYING? What you are buying are the things you allow people to say and do to you. Any friendship or relationship without a define goal or objective is unhealthy. Check the way he or she talks to you, is that what you bargained for before this friendship or relationship started? If some one is selling some thing you didn't bargained for, call him or her to order.....and remind him or her the agreed defined terms before the friendship or relationship started. If they are unwilling to supply what you want to buy, CHANGE THE SUPPLY. How can you be in relationship yet in silent pain? You can't joke, smiles and laugh with some one you call a friend or dating? What are you buying in this friendship or relationship or courtship? Is this what you b

Relationship is and will always be a transaction of values, priority and needs. Your success is being able to sell what you enjoy selling and what this person will enjoy buying from you. What are you selling is all about, your input or contribution to your present friendship, relationship or courtship. What's the quality of your attitude, mindset and manner of approach, you are investing in the lives of the people around you? Will you enjoy this lady or man treating you the same way you are treating him or her? Will you enjoy this person talking to you in the same manner you are talking to him or her? Its not about how committed you are this person, but as a man, is this what you promised her while asking her out? As a lady, is this what you promised him before you accepted him? Ever since you stepped into this persons life, has things gone worst or best? In what way have you being helping and supportive to this person? Do your jokes respect this person or it abuses him