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Love Transaction - Part 2

Relationship and life is a transaction. You must embrace it with transaction mentality. What is the need of staying in friendship or relationship of a month and you can't point one Godly thing you have gained....?

WHAT ARE YOU BUYING?

What you are buying are the things you allow people to say and do to you.

Any friendship or relationship without a define goal or objective is unhealthy.

Check the way he or she talks to you, is that what you bargained for before this friendship or relationship started?

If some one is selling some thing you didn't bargained for, call him or her to order.....and remind him or her the agreed defined terms before the friendship or relationship started.

If they are unwilling to supply what you want to buy, CHANGE THE SUPPLY.

How can you be in relationship yet in silent pain? You can't joke, smiles and laugh with some one you call a friend or dating?

What are you buying in this friendship or relationship or courtship?

Is this what you bargained for? If its no, why are you careful to voice out because you are afraid of loosing their friendship or attention?

Relationship is business. If he or she is not selling your demand, find some one that will sell it willingly.

Place a demand on your intention for friendship or relationship. Love is not blind. Love is not foolishness.

How can you allow people to treat you so bad in a way you can't even treat them by mistake?

The greatest gift in any healthy life is the gift of GOOD BYE to any thing is not your demand before the friendship or relationship or courtship started.

Every demand must be some thing that should feed your calling or vision or who God has created you to become.

What are you buying?

Don't blame any one for taking you for granted in any friendship or relationship or courtship.... Blame your self for sticking to him or her after he or she took you for granted.

What are you buying from this man?

What are you buying from this lady?

Are you really enjoying your relationship?

Is this what you bargained for?

DON'T MANAGE ANY ONE. DON'T PITY ANY ONE BY STAYING IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU ARE BUYING WHAT YOU NEVER BARGAINED FOR?

ONCE THE SUPPLY IS DIFFERENT FROM YOUR AGREED DEMAND, DEMAND FOR CHANGE AND IF IT CONTINUES, CALL OFF THE BUSINESS.

HOPE EXPRESSION MINISTRY

Prince Victor Matthew 
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