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WHAT WILL BE WILL NOT BE

Using the parable of the five foolish virgins and the five wise virgins in the bible....I realize that if you love some one so much and you let it go...thinking if its truly yours...it will come back to you, is VERY UNTRUE.

What will be, will not be without your deliberate Godly effort. Don't be a spectator in your own life...get involved!

Did the five foolish virgins get a second chance after they missed out, the first opportunity to meet with the bridegroom?

Did their tears, and pleading help them?

Why do you think your case will be different?

Many youths have lost a ONE TIME, life time opportunity in Relationship, because of this believe that is not rooted in Gods word.

In Relationship... We have different kinds of fighting...

You can either fight against your lover, or you fight along side with your lover.

Is either you and your love are fighting the same course, or you and your lover is fighting against each others course or goal.

When your ignorance wants to snatch your lover away...fight to retain and protect him or her.

When your pride, carelessness, expensive jokes,being rude, abusive and inability to admit your fault wants to snatch your lover away...fight to retain him or her.

When shifting blames on people wants to snatch your lover away...fight to retain him or her.

You will never deserve and enjoy whatsoever you refuse to protect!

Love is being protective mixed with understanding.

Be challenged.

For your experience to change...you must change your attitude and thinking pattern.

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