Skip to main content

WHAT WILL BE WILL NOT BE

Using the parable of the five foolish virgins and the five wise virgins in the bible....I realize that if you love some one so much and you let it go...thinking if its truly yours...it will come back to you, is VERY UNTRUE.

What will be, will not be without your deliberate Godly effort. Don't be a spectator in your own life...get involved!

Did the five foolish virgins get a second chance after they missed out, the first opportunity to meet with the bridegroom?

Did their tears, and pleading help them?

Why do you think your case will be different?

Many youths have lost a ONE TIME, life time opportunity in Relationship, because of this believe that is not rooted in Gods word.

In Relationship... We have different kinds of fighting...

You can either fight against your lover, or you fight along side with your lover.

Is either you and your love are fighting the same course, or you and your lover is fighting against each others course or goal.

When your ignorance wants to snatch your lover away...fight to retain and protect him or her.

When your pride, carelessness, expensive jokes,being rude, abusive and inability to admit your fault wants to snatch your lover away...fight to retain him or her.

When shifting blames on people wants to snatch your lover away...fight to retain him or her.

You will never deserve and enjoy whatsoever you refuse to protect!

Love is being protective mixed with understanding.

Be challenged.

For your experience to change...you must change your attitude and thinking pattern.

#HopeExpression
#PrinceVictorMatthew

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Be Single But Don't Be Stupid

Relationship is a tool and platform for maintaining, sustaining and deploying of dreams or purpose. Relationship is a tool and platform for learning, discovering and development your capacity, potentials, ideas and dream. Relationship is a tool and platform for participating in adding value to others and in receiving value from others. Being single is not a curse but an opportunity to discover your self and explore your dream. Being single is a season. There is a time to be single and there is a time for dating. Don't pursue your dream to the extreme and abandon the need for dating. Dating is a necessity and a pleasure. If you can't cultivate a healthy life as a single, dating will frustrate you. Be single and be productive. Be single and be result oriented. Be single and develop your capacity. Be single and understand your direction in life. Be single and Specific about your reason for existence. You are unique and you must dare to be different. Learn to stay where God has ord...
1 comment
Read more

Un-masking the past - Part 2

Why do you need to unmask the past? If you are not ready to unmask the past, you will remain a slave to your past. You won't be able to identify why you failed the way you fail. You won't be able to maintain the pattern of success you had in the past. It because difficult for you to trace the source of any present issue, conflict, and negative experience. Unmasking the past is the best gift you can ever offer yourself. You need to unmask the past, understanding your past is what dictates what to stop doing, what to start doing, what to change, and what to improve. It rescues you from blaming everybody while making excuses for your faults. Unmasking the past helps you not to repeat the same mistakes all over again. It reveals how you failed in other to know how to sit up in the present. It reveals how you succeeded and how to maintain that success. Nobody in life, including me, has a smooth past. During a counseling session, a lady once told me. I have a past that I will never t...
Post a Comment
Read more

Love Transaction - Part 1

Relationship is and will always be a transaction of values, priority and needs. Your success is being able to sell what you enjoy selling and what this person will enjoy buying from you. What are you selling is all about, your input or contribution to your present friendship, relationship or courtship. What's the quality of your attitude, mindset and manner of approach, you are investing in the lives of the people around you? Will you enjoy this lady or man treating you the same way you are treating him or her? Will you enjoy this person talking to you in the same manner you are talking to him or her? Its not about how committed you are this person, but as a man, is this what you promised her while asking her out? As a lady, is this what you promised him before you accepted him? Ever since you stepped into this persons life, has things gone worst or best? In what way have you being helping and supportive to this person? Do your jokes respect this person or it abuses him...
2 comments
Read more