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What Are You Really Doing?

I want to take this time out to asking this thought provocation question: WHAT ARE YOU REALLY DOING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? Is this what you bargain for before you engaged your self into this relationship? All the activity and even the things you and your lover fight about....is it really what brought you both into this relationship? What are you really committed to in this relationship? Are you committed to this relationship yet insensitive to your lovers pain? Are you growing? Is your strength waxing strong is its weakened daily? Is your weakness turning to strength? As lovers dating or married couple, what are you both really doing? 

Sit and evaluate...its time to return to the original reason why you accepted this person for a relationship. The things you are presently fighting your lover, all the drama and complaining....is that actually part of the reason why you engaged in this relationship in the first place? How can what is not your intention  waste your time? Are you playing and wasting time....calling it relationship? WHAT ARE YOU REALLY DOING? 
Do you know the needs, pains and struggles of your lover? Are you sensitive to them and using your Faith in God to help them conquer whatsoever challenge is happening in their lives? Do you even have a plan and direction in life? Do you have an idea about the plan and direction your lover is walking to daily? 

How often do you and your lover pray together and study the bible today? When was the last time you corrected your lovers mistakes? When was the last time you admitted and accepted correction from your lover? WHAT ARE YOU BOTH ACTUALLY DOING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? WHERE ARE YOU BOTH ACTUALLY HEADING TO WITH THIS RELATIONSHIP? Jesus is waiting to help you and the Holy Spirit is available to lead you into the truth you need!!! 

HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you!!!

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