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The Womb of Pain

Pain can either be your weapon to learn or become your weakness killing your growth. Everybody has a side of pain in their past yet some people are limited by this pain.
What have your past and pain turned you into? Has your pain turned you into a beast or a blessing? 
Nobody is the reason why you have become so heartless, rude, and arrogant. You are the way you are now because you choose to become it.
Individuals can display their ignorance and immaturity... But how you respond to them will determine your maturity.
What has the womb of pain birthed you to become?
Love is a choice.
Being rude is a choice.
Being arrogant is a choice.
Being caring is a choice.
Be more deliberate about your life and stop shifting blames on people, your past, or your pain.
Allow the pain to sharpen you, stretch you, and make you sensitive to things in your life you should improve.

If you fail or succeed in life and relationship, it's either your choice or your fault. Take charge....be accountable to God for how you talk and treat people. This is the will of God for you.

HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

®Baba Love
®Prince Victor Matthew

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