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IS THIS LOVE?


All you are and all you have as a lady/man not yet married....is a preparation and allocation for your future husband/wife. Why are you using the things the Lord bless you with for the sake of your future husband/wife as a weapon to disqualified the man/lady God is bringing your way?

There no place in the bible that says....a man must be richer than the lady or perfect 100% to qualify being her husband. There is no place in the bible that says a lady must be 100% perfect in attitude to qualify being a wife.

Beloved of God....all the Lord has given you....the vision in your hand and all your Godly attributes is a provision to accommodate this man/lady God will bring your way. Stop using it as a weapon of disqualifying man/lady around you.

Let's stop this...who qualifies and who doesn't qualify madness.

You didn't qualify Gods love...yet he gave his love to you richly. How come you are so ungrateful to disqualify any body?

If they are not in line of your divine purpose and life assignment....its a different thing. STOP USING FINANCIAL STATUS, SOCIAL CLASS AND FAMILY INFLUENCE TO QUALIFY AND DISQUALIFY WHO DESERVES YOUR LOVE OR WHO DOESN'T YOUR LOVE.

Be led by the Holy Spirit....not money or social class. Don't be led by His salary...her social influence...his social influence...Her money or family affluence.

This is the will of God for you.

HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you.

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