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DON'T BITE THE HAND THAT HAS FED YOU

I want you to learn this....about mentors and Father in the Lord. Many youths are missing it....don't be like them
Your mentor or father in the Lord...will not have some things you have....because its not his assignment to help you in that area.
Don't ever compare your self with them....measuring your strength with their strength..... They will only have the strength to your weaknesses... Meaning...they are only sent to what you lack.
Stop using what you have to determine how you relate with them.
When you start growing and learning new things....don't get drunk with knowledge....to the extended of challenging the very person that taught you what you know you.
Don't forget where your mentor met you, how he accepted you, how he believed in you....when you didn't look like it.........never!!!
Always be aware that people that have no clue about how your mentor and Father in the Lord helped you, invested in you and encouraged you....will soon come to advice you and make you feel....your mentor or father in the Lord is not treating you or respecting you as necessary.
They don't know what they see in you now that they value....was and is the effort of the same person...they are pushing you to be rude, insultive and disloyal too.
Be careful of people that showed up in your life...during your glory moment......don't allow them make you to be ungrateful to the people that stood by you and supported during your down moment...before the glory stage showed up!!!
A mentor or father in the Lord that stood by you during the darkness season of your life....does not deserve disrespect at all
Be afraid of people that says....having a mentor or father in the Lord is not necessary.... Saying what they have is even more than what some father in the Lord have.
Fathers in the Lord or mentors might not be as social like you or strong in some things....BUT THEY HAVE THE MYSTERY AND EXPERIENCE YOU WILL NEVER GET FROM GOOGLE.
Life is a relay race...if you despise the person you ought to get the bartin from to continue the race....frustration becomes your clothing.
Don't abuse your mentor.
Don't disrespect your father in the Lord.
Don't let the knowledge you have gotten now...get you drunk into misbehaviour.
The best knowledge you have now...that is getting you drunk...is the least knowledge of another person.
Be humble!!!
My heart bleeds...but don't be like those that forget the hands that fed them...!!!
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