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Break That Manipulation

Don't listen to them.
Don't allow them.
They insult you and you say nothing....they say you are weak.

They insult you and confront them...they say you are proud.

They hurt you and you forgive them but set boundaries...they say you are arrogant and proud.

They hurt you again and again..and you do nothing....they will always shift the blame on you...as a reason why they always hurt you.

Even when you sacrifice with your blood to be there for them....they still make you feel that you are not good enough...you don't have what it takes...and there is a need for you to stay committed to them...just to earn their approval.

Don't listen to them.
When your strength intimidate them....they find faults in you.

Stick to the Holy Spirit and give no room to manipulators...who makes excuses for their own faults BUT the first to judge you.

Be challenged!
#PrinceVictorMatthew

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