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BE A MATURED MAN

Dear Brothers,

I celebrate you all.
I know you are 32 years old or above that age, this doesn't mean you are matured enough for a serious relationship heading to the altar (Marriage).

A man that needs a lady for relationship is not a lazy man, doing nothing, heading no where, and defending nothing. Nop! That is not maturity.

A matured man in Christ is He that has discovered his direction in life through Gods word. He is the one that have discovered and walking in his life assignment and mandate (calling). He is one that is daily discovering and executing the responsibility God designed him to embrace so much that, HE NEEDS TO BE SUPPORTED BY A SUITABLE HELPER.

A woman is a Support and Suitable Helper....but you have to discover and be doing what she is coming to support and help you to do before she even arrives. Before this support and help is given to you by a lady, you have to prove and grow to a level of success so much that, God will be pleased to give you his daughter as a support and suitable helper.

The provision of a lady to you by God for a serious relationship heading to marriage...IS A RESPONSIBILITY HIDDEN IN AN OPPORTUNITY. Any friendship or Relationship with any lady that is not enhancing, what God gave to you to be doing before she came into your life...IS A DISTRACTION AND MUST BE PUT TO A STOP.

This lady coming into Relationship with you,  should make the responsibility you have been walking in alone...more easier for you now that she has arrived. It should bring a relief. It should bring a support...BUT BEFORE YOU EXPECT THIS...you too must prove to God with the result you are achieving in your Singlehood that, you have reached the stage to be supported (Relationship leading to marriage).
Run with Gods Word.
#PrinceVictorMatthew

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