God's plan and purpose for your life matters to me too. Your vision in Christ is also important to me. Salvation is not about Hope Xpression forum alone. Salvation is about you & me in Christ. This is not my vision neither your own vision. God's vision lives in us all. Let's lay our differences aside. Christ has called us into one faith, one baptism, & one spirit- Christ. Value the people that supports God's vision in you & value God's vision in their own lives too. You can't stand alone, teamwork is needed. Their vision has a role to play in the vision in you & the vision in you has a role to play in the vision in them. Stop manipulating people because they will surely know & you will loose their trust. Be truthful, be sincere & be honest. Don't use people, please, help people to be useful through the vision in you. Change the way you think. Be more accountable & responsible to God.

Matthew 12:37 “For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.” It is not sufficient to know what to say but it’s a must you learn how to say them. The truth of the matter is just that “Words can bless”. The reason why I say this is because it is good to love and care for the people around you  but the most important thing is, you learning the skill of tell or expressing to them that they are loved and cared for. Another reality of life I have come to understand is “Words can destroy”. Do you know that a saying goes this way, the sticks and stones can break my bones but words can’t hurt me, is not true? Words can hurt you far more than sticks and stone even to the deepest part your bone. What we are trying to figure out is this; the words you say is the life that becomes a reality in the lives around you. If you speak bad words, bad experiences will befall you. The number one step is you learning to see your self, ...