Beloved, do not chase dating or romantic attention when you lack clarity about your purpose, calling, and direction in life. Entering relationships without understanding who you are and where God is taking you often leads to confusion, compromise, and heartbreak. Your heart, time, and energy are precious, and they deserve alignment with God’s plan for your life. Singles, your season of preparation is not a waiting room for love—it is a training ground for destiny. God wants you to know yourself, your values, and the assignment He has placed on your life before you invest in someone else. Pursuing love without this foundation is like building on sand; it may feel exciting, but it cannot endure the storms of life and ministry. Understanding your purpose also equips you to recognize partners who are aligned with God’s plan for you. It protects you from distractions, unhealthy attachments, and relationships that derail your calling. Your heart must first be settled in God’s truth so that y...

If you are single or currently in a premarital relationship, this season is not a waiting room for marriage but a training ground for wholeness. As a man or a woman, what you are becoming now will determine the kind of relationship you will sustain later. Love is not proven by how fast emotions grow but by how well your values, convictions, and purpose align. God uses this season to heal your heart, shape your character, and teach you how to love without losing yourself. Many relationships struggle because both men and women enter love expecting their partner to fix what only God can heal. A man may desire respect but has not learned responsibility. A woman may desire security but has not learned emotional stability. Healthy relationships are built when both genders take ownership of their growth. Love works best when two whole people choose each other, not when two wounded people cling to each other out of fear of loneliness. Premarital relationships are meant to reveal alignment, not...