Desiring marriage can make singles impatient, tempting them to settle or force relationships. But God’s timing is perfect, and His plans are higher than ours. Scripture declares, “Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!” (Psalm 27:14). Walking in patience allows God to orchestrate the right union that honors Him fully. Waiting is not passive; it is a period of preparation, prayer, and personal growth. Singles are called to strengthen their character, deepen their intimacy with Jesus, and clarify their purpose. This ensures that when the right partner comes, the relationship will serve God’s kingdom and not just personal desire. Rushing leads to compromises and mismatches, but intentional waiting produces alignment, covenant readiness, and a union that glorifies Jesus. Trusting God’s timing allows His wisdom to guide your choices, protecting your heart and your future marriage. When you wait on God and walk in His timing, you become a vessel rea...

Desiring a relationship often begins with “What can this person do for me?” but becoming a husband or wife means asking, “How can I serve this person and honor God in this union?” Scripture reminds us, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves” (Philippians 2:3). Singles must cultivate a servant-hearted attitude, learning to put love, sacrifice, and humility above personal satisfaction. True preparation for marriage involves growing in empathy, patience, and generosity. It is not about finding someone to complete you but about being complete in Christ so you can complement another in love and purpose. Each act of selfless love now prepares you for the covenant relationship that glorifies Jesus. Many singles struggle because they pursue relationships for personal gain—companionship, status, or fulfillment. But God calls you to pursue a partner in alignment with His kingdom, someone you can uplift, encourage, and walk with...

Infatuation is temporary, but marriage is a covenant—a sacred promise that mirrors Christ’s love for the Church. Singles often confuse feelings with readiness for lifelong commitment. Scripture instructs, “Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate” (Matthew 19:6). A relationship rooted in covenant prioritizes faithfulness, patience, and mutual growth over fleeting emotions. Dating is the practice field for understanding covenantal love. It is a time to ask hard questions, test compatibility, and discern God’s direction. Singles must examine whether their heart is willing to commit beyond feelings, to persevere through challenges, and to serve selflessly. Covenant love is intentional and sacrificial, not conditional on mood or attraction. Many young people rush relationships expecting emotions to sustain them, only to face disappointment. But when a relationship is evaluated through the lens of covenant, singles learn patience, endurance, and humility. They also learn...

Singles often pursue relationships based on attraction, charisma, or temporary chemistry. While these can spark interest, they are not the measure of a God-centered marriage. Alignment is key: shared values, faith, and purpose are what sustain a lifelong union. Scripture teaches, “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14). Seek someone whose life and calling resonate with yours so Jesus is glorified in every step you take together. Dating is the season to evaluate alignment, not just infatuation. Ask: Does this person love God wholeheartedly? Do they demonstrate fruit of the Spirit? Are they walking in their calling? God desires that your relationship is a partnership in kingdom work, where both of you grow in Christ together. When attraction is prioritized over alignment, relationships often falter under the weight of incompatible visions or values. Singles must...

Beloved, desiring a relationship or marriage is natural, but God calls us to examine the heart behind that desire. Many singles focus on filling a void or satisfying emotions, forgetting that a God-honoring union requires preparation. Scripture reminds us, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11). Before seeking a spouse, take time to grow spiritually, emotionally, and mentally so that your future marriage reflects God’s glory. Preparation means becoming the person God wants you to be before bringing someone else into your life. It’s not just about readiness to be loved, but readiness to love selflessly, lead faithfully, and support your partner’s God-given purpose. As a single, invest in your personal growth, discover your calling, and ensure your life is aligned with Christ. A marriage that glorifies Jesus is built on individuals who are whole in Him first. Dating without preparation...